Fighting is part of every real relationship. The key is knowing how to resolve the conflict without breaking up the friendship. Often it is the individual who knows how to communicate by sharing his feelings and not pointing fingers who can diffuse the situation. Since both members of the friendship are feeling defensive, it becomes a risky and sensitive venture. It may talk a couple tries to fully resolve your differences but you may come out with a stronger friendship at the other end.
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Life Poems AND Inspirational Poems about Life....that we must always remember....
Change Poems
All of us experience change in our lives. Change is the one constant in our lives. There are changes that we look forward too and change that we fear. However, one thing is for sure. Things will not stay the same no matter how much we would like them too. When a life change occurs, we have two choices in how to respond. We can despair that a change has come and assume that things will be worse, or we can look with excitement at the new possibilities that the change presents.
Courage Poems
What is courage? What defines a courageous act? It is said that the brave and cowardly person are both fearful. However, it is the brave one who faces his fear and does what needs to be done. We will be faced with many things that scare us throughout our lives. How can we become the kind of people that face our fear and do it anyway? Human growth takes place when we take small steps. Each time we face our fears we become more of the courageous people that we would like to be.
Dream Poems
There are two kinds of dreams. There are dreams that we have while asleep and dreams that we have while we are awake. What is the connection between the two types? Both kinds of dreams are about the yearnings that are held deep inside us. Some of these desires are so secret that we dare not share them even with our closest friends. Those of us that dare to put our dreams down on paper are showing the courage and faith that they will come true.
Faith Poems
To have faith is to defy logic. It takes faith to think positively. It takes faith to believe that there is a loving G-d who cares deeply about our pain. To believe in life, the universe, or yourself after numerous failures is to have courage. Faith is an act of courage. It is choosing to get up in the morning and face our fears and believe that G-d will help us. Faith is choosing to believe that even though we may have failed one hundred times before that we can succeed the next time.
Fear Poems
Fear is a part of life. It is part of the range of feelings that humans experience on a daily basis. In our culture, fear has come to be experienced as negative. However, the truth is that fear is a perfectly normal feeling to experience and we would all feel a lot better if we simply allowed ourselves to feel it fully. If we do not we will have somatic symptoms of fear that are much more painful than simply allowing the feeling to be felt.
All of us experience change in our lives. Change is the one constant in our lives. There are changes that we look forward too and change that we fear. However, one thing is for sure. Things will not stay the same no matter how much we would like them too. When a life change occurs, we have two choices in how to respond. We can despair that a change has come and assume that things will be worse, or we can look with excitement at the new possibilities that the change presents.
Courage Poems
What is courage? What defines a courageous act? It is said that the brave and cowardly person are both fearful. However, it is the brave one who faces his fear and does what needs to be done. We will be faced with many things that scare us throughout our lives. How can we become the kind of people that face our fear and do it anyway? Human growth takes place when we take small steps. Each time we face our fears we become more of the courageous people that we would like to be.
Dream Poems
There are two kinds of dreams. There are dreams that we have while asleep and dreams that we have while we are awake. What is the connection between the two types? Both kinds of dreams are about the yearnings that are held deep inside us. Some of these desires are so secret that we dare not share them even with our closest friends. Those of us that dare to put our dreams down on paper are showing the courage and faith that they will come true.
Faith Poems
To have faith is to defy logic. It takes faith to think positively. It takes faith to believe that there is a loving G-d who cares deeply about our pain. To believe in life, the universe, or yourself after numerous failures is to have courage. Faith is an act of courage. It is choosing to get up in the morning and face our fears and believe that G-d will help us. Faith is choosing to believe that even though we may have failed one hundred times before that we can succeed the next time.
Fear Poems
Fear is a part of life. It is part of the range of feelings that humans experience on a daily basis. In our culture, fear has come to be experienced as negative. However, the truth is that fear is a perfectly normal feeling to experience and we would all feel a lot better if we simply allowed ourselves to feel it fully. If we do not we will have somatic symptoms of fear that are much more painful than simply allowing the feeling to be felt.
To forgive is divine. It is a trait that we learn from our creator. He has shown us that is possible to repent from our sins and that we can forgive others as well. Forgiveness is more than saying the words, "I forgive you". If you still harbor hatred in your heart this is not true forgiveness. In order to truly forgive you must put myself in the other person's place. you must try to understand how they could do such a thing to you. When you understand what has led them to that act, you may be able truly forgive them.
Inspirational Poems
Life is a lot of work. What is it that gives us the strength to continue when we are tired and burned out? Sometimes an inspirational idea can help us renew ourselves and be filled with strength to fulfill our life's purpose. Inspiration comes in many forms. However, the root of all inspiration is the idea that our lives are meaningful. Inspiration is knowing that what I do matters deeply to the universe. When you have the feeling that your actions are meaningful, you will become filled with strength and vigor to fulfill your life's purpose.
Life is a lot of work. What is it that gives us the strength to continue when we are tired and burned out? Sometimes an inspirational idea can help us renew ourselves and be filled with strength to fulfill our life's purpose. Inspiration comes in many forms. However, the root of all inspiration is the idea that our lives are meaningful. Inspiration is knowing that what I do matters deeply to the universe. When you have the feeling that your actions are meaningful, you will become filled with strength and vigor to fulfill your life's purpose.
Lesson Poems
It has been said that life is the most patient teacher. You will be presented with the same experience over and over until you learn the best way to deal with the situation.. This is not because life is cruel. Rather, it is because things have a way of coming back to haunt us when we don't deal with them. One form of intelligence is the ability to learn from mistakes. When you are presented with a painful experience, take the time to think about how you can avoid it in the future. This is an example of a lesson learned.
It has been said that life is the most patient teacher. You will be presented with the same experience over and over until you learn the best way to deal with the situation.. This is not because life is cruel. Rather, it is because things have a way of coming back to haunt us when we don't deal with them. One form of intelligence is the ability to learn from mistakes. When you are presented with a painful experience, take the time to think about how you can avoid it in the future. This is an example of a lesson learned.
Life Poems
Life is the sum of experiences that we encounter as go through life. Day to day to struggles and triumphs are experienced by all of the world's creatures. As human beings, when we encounter a challenge, we have freedom to choose how to react. Every decision that we make leads us down another road. We will never come to exactly the same crossroads. Every decision the we make has significance. The tiniest choice that is made reverberates throughout the entire universe.
Life is the sum of experiences that we encounter as go through life. Day to day to struggles and triumphs are experienced by all of the world's creatures. As human beings, when we encounter a challenge, we have freedom to choose how to react. Every decision that we make leads us down another road. We will never come to exactly the same crossroads. Every decision the we make has significance. The tiniest choice that is made reverberates throughout the entire universe.
Meaning Poems
It is the thesis of the great psychoanalyst Victor Frankl that man can endure any hardship as long as he can find meaning in the experience. Incidentally, as a survivor of Nazi Concentration Camps he was in a position to know. Thank G-d, most of us are not tested in such extreme conditions. However, the principle is the same. Human beings cannot live without meaning. Depression is the natural outcome of living a life that is bereft of purpose.
It is the thesis of the great psychoanalyst Victor Frankl that man can endure any hardship as long as he can find meaning in the experience. Incidentally, as a survivor of Nazi Concentration Camps he was in a position to know. Thank G-d, most of us are not tested in such extreme conditions. However, the principle is the same. Human beings cannot live without meaning. Depression is the natural outcome of living a life that is bereft of purpose.
Poems about Memories
Every experience that we have is encoded in our brains. This is certainly true from the day we are born, and many people believe that we also have access to past life experiences. What is the purpose of filing away all that data? Although we are unaware of it, our unconscious dictates many of our life decisions. Our unconscious has access to all of these memories. When we work to bring awareness to the memories that are dictating our decisions, we are able to make conscious choices about our lives.
Every experience that we have is encoded in our brains. This is certainly true from the day we are born, and many people believe that we also have access to past life experiences. What is the purpose of filing away all that data? Although we are unaware of it, our unconscious dictates many of our life decisions. Our unconscious has access to all of these memories. When we work to bring awareness to the memories that are dictating our decisions, we are able to make conscious choices about our lives.
Nature Poems
Life and nature are similar concepts because nature is the study of how life acts and interacts within the circle of existence. When we take the time to examine the beauty of the world around us, we are able to see parallels within our own lives. One who is attuned with nature is attuned with the practice of living. All of nature moves in a spiral as do our personal lives. It is important to spend time in nature because in this way we can become attuned to its wisdom
Life and nature are similar concepts because nature is the study of how life acts and interacts within the circle of existence. When we take the time to examine the beauty of the world around us, we are able to see parallels within our own lives. One who is attuned with nature is attuned with the practice of living. All of nature moves in a spiral as do our personal lives. It is important to spend time in nature because in this way we can become attuned to its wisdom
use this in DAILY LIFE..................
Talk—————Softly
Walk—————-Humbly
Eat——————-Sensibly
Breathe——————–Deeply
Sleep———————-Sufficiently
Dress—————————Smartly
Act——————————-Fearlessly
Work———————————Patiently
Think———————————–Truthfully
Believe————————————Correctly
Behave—————————————–Decently
Learn———————————————Practically
Plan—————————————————–Orderly
Earn———————————————————-Honestly
Save————————————————————–Regularly
Spend—————————————————————Intelligently
Love———————————————————————Passionately
ENJOY — ——————————————————————-COMPLETELY
Walk—————-Humbly
Eat——————-Sensibly
Breathe——————–Deeply
Sleep———————-Sufficiently
Dress—————————Smartly
Act——————————-Fearlessly
Work———————————Patiently
Think———————————–Truthfully
Believe————————————Correctly
Behave—————————————–Decently
Learn———————————————Practically
Plan—————————————————–Orderly
Earn———————————————————-Honestly
Save————————————————————–Regularly
Spend—————————————————————Intelligently
Love———————————————————————Passionately
ENJOY — ——————————————————————-COMPLETELY
If LIFE IS A BANK then what is the LIfE in our human relation?????
1. RELATIONSHIP: It is Cash Credit A/c with No limit. U can get a credit balance of Happiness any time and u can debit your problems, tension any time. If there is no transaction (Communication) in the account for 1 month It become NPA. But it can be made Standard asset easily by Submitting beautiful SMILES.
Note : U can open similar Frndship a/c with many Banks but One Bank should be ur Favorite.
Note : U can open similar Frndship a/c with many Banks but One Bank should be ur Favorite.
2. LOVE: It is Term Loan with Life time repayment Period. U have to submit regular installment of Love otherwise It become NPA. The LOVE Principal will remain constant for entire period but LOVE Interest will increase with time.
Note : Its not Permissible to Open similar A/c with more than one bank. However Take Overs are allowed in Certain condition. The NPA should be black listed and no bank should bank with those A/c holders
3. Marriage: It’s like a CREDIT CARD. Before U takes this, the Seller will show u Greeneries and U will die to get one Credit card. But the time u get it, U will come to know about the RISK involve with it. You always take care of your card. Shopping with this is Easy but Very costly. Once u fail to pay (Love) in given time, U have to pay High interest (e.g. buy Jewellary, Candle light dinner, Outing etc.)
Best Friends
Before I met youmy life was grewI had no one to talk tonothing to sayWhen I met youyou brighten up my lifeif it wasn't for youmy life will be taking by a knifeme and you talkedand became best friendswe promised each otherwe would be there to the endI love you like a sisterlike I knew you for everand on our key chainsit says best friends foreverI'll be there when you cryor a relationship gone badwhen we get older, I'll make surethat you are never ever sadeven in collegeI want to stay in touchseeing you once in awhilewill never be enoughI know we will have timeswhere we will not agreebut we will make it up withsleepovers, popcorn, and moviesso to my best friendI hope you never go awaybecause I do what best friends doand I will always be here to stay
My Friend
I haven't known youFor very longBut the love we shareIs so strongWe've been through muchThe good and the badI've seen you when you're happyI've seen you sadYou've given me scaresYou've given me alarmBut I've been there to helpI've kept you from harmYou've been on the brinkOf losing everythingBut I've always been thereTo keep you from fallingYou thank me for helpingYou think I'm a giftYou thank me for being thereWhile through emotions you siftYou think I walk on waterYou think I hung the moonBut I'm only humanYou'll see that soonI am fallibleYou will seeI can't perform miraclesI can't part the seaTo me you are dearI hold you to my heartI won't let you sufferYour burden I'll help cartEvery time I help youEach time you copeYou do not realize itBut you've given me hopeWhen I give you comfortCan't you seeThat I don't comfort youYou really comfort me
Hate me
People go and people come. That’s how I overcome and like my heart, it goes and comes whenever it likes and I feel like a human without feeling but at the same time I feel great. It’s very special to be odd but to be special is very sickening. Why God gave us this gift? I prefer not to have feeling and mind like other creature. I hate myself for always feel I’m useless and meaningless to myself. I got nothing to do and nothing to care about myself. People love and be loved while I in this world feel no company and lonely. Shall commit suicide? But that's impossible for I’m Muslim and I have God to respect. I got to go from this world coz I hate myself right now. I don’t want to be me forever, and I hope I will go away forever leave my lovely-precious-only-thing family in this world. I love them and never feel to leave them until I repay theirs. I can’t give back whatever they had given me. But please God, I feel so ashamed with what I’ve done, and please take me with u. I know my life was so great and the greatness isn't immortal. I’ll become dumber and my strength will go and that's very fact to talk about. So, what for I survive now? I don’t need any talent for I have it all. I don’t need any prosperity for i know it won’t change anything. I’ll still be the same. Why God still want me to live for i hate to live and don’t have direction to go. i know my mind will change tomorrow but the same thing will come again to me and it will goes, and come again and again and again. So, what for i continue to live for i now i still have no one to cry with. i have nobody to laugh with. 'They' will never understand. ‘They’ are human, while I’m an animal who really want to go far away from this life. i had always pray to be the best and i think I’ve gotten what i want. I’ve made my family feel proud of me. o, at least 90% i did. So, i don’t want to make them feel disappointed for what i will do after this which is bad i think. i rather to die than live without care and love. My family loves me, and i love them. But do they come to me when i need them? no, they didn't. i appreciated a lot of what they gave but i need a shoulder to lie to and someone to ask me, how am i doing? How’s my life? Why i feel sad? To shout with me when i got a triumph, or good news. My god, please lead me to the best way and the best thing for right now is death. I’m bagging u my God, my only one....
Apologize..
I'm holding on your rope,Got me ten feet off the groundAnd I'm hearing what you say but I just can't make a soundYou tell me that you need meThen you go and cut me down, but waitYou tell me that you're sorryDidn't think I'd turn around, and say...
That it's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
I'd take another chance, take a fallTake a shot for youAnd I need you like a heart needs a beatbut it's nothing new
I loved you with the fire red-Now it's turning blue, and you say..."Sorry" like the angel heaven let me think was youbut I'm afraid...
It's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
It's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, I said it's too late to apologize, I'm holding on your rope, got me ten feet off...
That it's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
I'd take another chance, take a fallTake a shot for youAnd I need you like a heart needs a beatbut it's nothing new
I loved you with the fire red-Now it's turning blue, and you say..."Sorry" like the angel heaven let me think was youbut I'm afraid...
It's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
It's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, I said it's too late to apologize, I'm holding on your rope, got me ten feet off...
this mAkeZ mE tHiNk
Did I disappoint you or let you down? Should I be feeling guilty or let the judges frown? 'Cause I saw the end before we'd begun, Yes I saw you were blinded and I knew I had won. So I took what's mine by eternal right. Took your soul out into the night. It may be over but it won't stop there, I am here for you if you'd only care. You touched my heart you touched my soul. You changed my life and all my goals. And love is blind and that I knew when, My heart was blinded by you. I've kissed your lips and held your head. Shared your dreams and shared your bed. I know you well, I know your smell. I've been addicted to you. Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me. I am a dreamer but when I wake, You can't break my spirit - it's my dreams you take. And as you move on, remember me, Remember us and all we used to be I've seen you cry, I've seen you smile. I've watched you sleeping for a while. I'd be the father of your child. I'd spend a lifetime with you. I know your fears and you know mine. We've had our doubts but now we're fine, And I love you, I swear that's true. I cannot live without you. Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me. And I still hold your hand in mine. In mine when I'm asleep. And I will bear my soul in time, When I'm kneeling at your feet. Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me. I'm so hollow, baby, I'm so hollow. I'm so, I'm so, I'm so hollow
HOw MuCh I HaTe YOU!!!!!
I wished u knew how much I hate u.....
I hate u, hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate youI hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate youI have never hated anyone in my lifeThe way I hate you
I hate how you made a mark in my heart,
I hate it when you look at meI hate it when you smileI hate it when you catch my eyeI hate it when you lie
I hate it when you shoutI hate it when you think you knowI hate it when you think I careI hate it when you glareI hate the way you stare
Ive learned not to trust your wordsUr pity face and deceiving looks
all I know is that u never gave me anything but only made it all worst...called me names and betrayed all my trust.y shud I ever listen to u.you will never change.its all mere fake sweetness tht you u try to act on.if theres something to make u change.prove it to the world tht u hav changed.begin to gain ur mothers trust atleast.then sum1 might fall into ur trap again.but trust my words. IT WILL NEVER BE MINE!!!!
I hate u, hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate youI hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate you I hate youI have never hated anyone in my lifeThe way I hate you
I hate how you made a mark in my heart,
I hate it when you look at meI hate it when you smileI hate it when you catch my eyeI hate it when you lie
I hate it when you shoutI hate it when you think you knowI hate it when you think I careI hate it when you glareI hate the way you stare
Ive learned not to trust your wordsUr pity face and deceiving looks
all I know is that u never gave me anything but only made it all worst...called me names and betrayed all my trust.y shud I ever listen to u.you will never change.its all mere fake sweetness tht you u try to act on.if theres something to make u change.prove it to the world tht u hav changed.begin to gain ur mothers trust atleast.then sum1 might fall into ur trap again.but trust my words. IT WILL NEVER BE MINE!!!!
iTs aLL bCoZ oF YoU!!!!!
I Want to, but I can't help it I love the way you feel just kind a stuck between my fantasy and what is real I need it when I want it I want it when I don't tell myself "I'll stop" every day knowing that I won't I got a problem and I don't know what to do about it even If I didn't I don't know If I would quit but I doubt it, I’m takin' by the thought of it And I know this much is true baby you have become my addiction I’m so strung out on you I can barely move but I'm liking' it and it's all because of you all because of you and it's all because of you all because of you and it's all because of you all because of you and it's all because never get enough he the sweetest moment think of it every second I can't get nothing done only concern is the next time I’m gone get me some know I should stay away from cause its no good for me I try and try but my obsession wont let me leave I got a problem and I don't know what to do about it even If I did I don't know If I would quit but I doubt it, I’m taking by the thought of it And I know this much is true baby you have become my addiction I am so strung out on you I can barely move but I'm liking' it and it's all because of you all because of you and it's all because of you all because of you and it's all because of you all because of you and it's all because of you never get enough hes the sweetest drug isn’t no doubt so strung out isn’t no doubt so strung out over you over you because of you and it's all because of you never get enough
You is the sweetest love
U is the sweetest love...
You is the sweetest love
U is the sweetest love...
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
EASY and DIFFICULT
EASY& DIFFICULT
Easy is to judge the mistakes of others
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes
Easy is to talk without thinking
Difficult is to refrain the tongue
Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...
Easy is to forgive others
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness
Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...
Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult is to fight for a dream...
Easy is to show victory.
Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...
Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult to see the other side...
Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up....
Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult to give its real value...
Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...
Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...
Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult is to improve oneself...
Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult is to learn from them...
Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.
Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action...
Easy is to think bad of others
Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt...
Easy is to receive
Difficult is to give
Easy to read this
Difficult to follow
Keep your words
What I dislike most in people is when they do not keep their word. I have had many encounters with people who do this and I must say I find it most unpleasant. I’m not trying to be boastful but I usually keep my word. If I find that I am not able to because of extraordinary circumstances, I make it a point to tell the person involved so that they wont feel let down. It seems to me that some people simply say things without meaning what they say. They just utter words out of convenience. I remember, there is a friend of mine who replies ‘no problem’ to any request made to him. When we require his help we would tell him and invariably his answer will be ‘no problem’ but whatever thing we asked him to do almost always fail. Sometimes we can wait but more often now we get someone else to do. This someone else also does not usually keep his word but at least he does not say ‘no problem’. It goes to show how untrustworthy a man can become. His word means nothing. It has no value at all. I always go by the saying ‘say what you mean, and mean what you say’. It seems many people cannot be bothered about saying what they meaning and meaning what they say. They just say anything they like and do something else. It is impossible to trust people like this. They will let you down. It is best that we keep away from such people. However this is almost impossible to do because the whole world is filled with them. It seems to me there are more people who do not keep their word than people who do. Perhaps this is the result of living in the modern world where people are more concerned about making money than keeping their word. Money can be kept in the bank but words cant. Money can be used to buy things and words cant.
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